BJP refuses to accept Sonia Gandhi as India's daugther-in-law, but has no qualms naming Sania Mirza Pakistan's daughter-in-law": Twitterati

The News Minute | July 24, 2014 | 1.28 pm ISTWell, we are back to square one. A tennis player of international repute settled in Hyderabad has been reduced to a "daughter-in-law of Pakistan" after she was appointed ambassador for the state in which she lives.K Chandrashekar Rao appointed Sania Mirza as the brand ambassador for Telangana and handed over a cheque for Rs 1 crore. A BJP MLA from the state K Laxman took objection to it saying she was born in Maharashtra and settled in Hyderabad only later. Moreover, he said, she was the daughter-in-law of Pakistan. But his objections were not limited to her being, as he called it Pakistan’s daughter-in-law. Mirza had married Pakistani cricketer Shoaib Mallik in 2010. Hence, the daughter-in-law reference. This statement over shadowed the other reasons he objected to Mirza’s appointment. But that’s another story.Many people have taken offence to Laxman calling Mirza a daughter-in-law of Pakistan, or referring to her as daughter-in-law etc. They said Mirza was an Indian sports person of talent who had brought a name to the country. It just brings us back to a basic question: why are women defined in terms of the men in their family? Can we not look at a Sania Mirza or a Saina Nehwal, or a Mary Kom as sports persons in their own right?But given this statement came from a BJP leader whose party has now distanced itself from these this remark, has prompted some to ask, why the party has a problem with Sonia Gandhi, who is an Italian by birth and moved to India after she married Rajiv Gandhi. By the BJP's logic, she is then India's daughter-in-law.People on Twitter took on the BJP's stance, dissecting it apart on questions of identity, representation sports, patriarchy and also politics.BJP says #SaniaMirza can't b Telengana brand ambassador cos she's a "daughter in law of Pak"?Will they ban our pride in her achievemnts too?— Anna MM Vetticad (@annavetticad) July 24, 2014Sexist Bigot. Gives away his mindset -always daughter in laws,never daughters? the idiot MP who calls @MirzaSania Pakistan's daughter in law— barkha dutt (@BDUTT) July 24, 2014If by marrying a Pakistani @MirzaSania forfeits Indianness, then what was the big deal about Sonia Gandhi's Italian origins?— Nistula Hebbar (@nistula) July 24, 2014Dear @MirzaSania baiters, before she became as you call her "a daughter in law of Pakistan" was she somebody's daughter 1st? & was it India?— kanika gahlaut (@kanikagahlaut) July 24, 2014Leave # telangana, #SaniaMirza is not worthy being called an 'Indian' pic.twitter.com/lGYiOXRYjv— ραναη ѕнєтн (@pavansheth) July 24, 2014BJP took 4 decades in accepting Ms Gandhi as India's daughter in law & less than 4 years to accept Sania Mirza as Pakistan's daughter in law— Pawan Khera (@Pawankhera) July 24, 2014Renuka Choudhury for one, said that Sania Mirza was a daughter of the country. “When men are appointed (brand ambassadors) you become their slaves, but when a woman is appointed, suddenly you remember where she is from, her maike (mother’s house).” She said. Subramanian Swamy said: “When people have divided loyalties, we cannot expect them to represent country or any other part of the country faithfully.”Others compared her to Amitabh Bachchan who apparently is a brand ambassador for several states.