The News Minute | September 6, 2014 | 5.26 pm ISTInternational media reported that Jay Williams, a video producer approached a spiritual and relationship expert for help on being a better father to all of his children. He has 34, by the way, with different women.Williams has 34 children with 17 women. Huffington Post reported that Williams wrote to Iyanla Vanzant, a relationship and spiritual expert, asking her for help. The first thing she did when she met him, was to give him 34 dolls and asked them to hold it. He was only able to hold 14.Holding the dolls, Williams and Vanzant talked about the children he had and whether he had ever considered a vasectomy. Vazant asked him if it had ever occurred to him that he had too many children. After a while, he says he was tired of holding the dolls and places them on the chair next to him.Handing all the dolls back to him, Vanzant said: “I'm sorry, as a mom, I don't get not to take care of my children, no matter what I'm thinking or feeling. I didn't get to just put them down because it was inconvenient."